About me
I have a professional background in community work and am a parent to a three-year-old. I have ties to the east coast: the real east coast, not Ontario. I am a person who feels deeply and values human connection. I can be sarcastic. I get excited about trying new experiences. I’m learning to be unapologetic about my humanness.
I am a caring partner. I’m committed to growing together and building a meaningful, balanced relationship where everyone’s needs are met and respected.
My dating history
I find dating in Toronto difficult. I’m over the apps and I’m not making meaningful connections in my day-to-day life. Toronto can feel like a revolving door, picture-perfect pressure to have it figured out.
I’ve never married but have had one serious long-term partner who is my child’s other parent. I’ve mostly dated using apps in the past, although I had met my last partner in person through my work. I haven’t dated much or for many years and am just now re-entering that realm.
I have been single about two-and-a-half years now. While the freedom has been great, I do miss having someone to share life’s moments with, and the emotional connection and intimacy that comes with building a partnership. I love the excitement of being with someone new, there’s a certain type of energy in the unknown and navigating those first steps and then settling into comfort with a person.
What I’m looking for in a partner
I am looking for someone who is emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, communicative, and is willing to grow with me, both individually and together. I need someone who I can be truly authentic with — learn, unlearn, and grow with and who supports me in realizing a life that I want.
While not by any means a must, I’d love a partner who is musical, enjoys travelling, and likes a good pub. Bonus points for strong arms!
I’m a solo parent to a toddler who lives with me full-time, but I still have to navigate interactions with their other parent, so I need someone who understands that. If you want a partner who has no responsibility or a completely open schedule, we likely won’t be a good match.
Why I’m doing it this way
I decided to take part in this series out of curiosity. I wanted to try something new, challenge my comfort zone, and see if I can find some deeper connections in the process.
I want a relationship that is easy to navigate but doesn’t lack depth. I want a connection that’s built on trust, where everyone is comfortable being our authentic selves. I envision a partnership where we can share life’s joys and challenges, laugh together, and create meaningful memories, whether we’re enjoying quiet intimate moments or taking on new adventures. If you’re ready to build something meaningful together, I’d love to meet you!
